Listening to the two friends talk, there are three or four core elements they identify as being really important in not simply welcoming someone, but making them feel they belong.
Firstly, the two talk about how Antoni included Eban. Eban was living nearby and it sounds like Eban just became part of Antoni’s family.
When was the last time you invited someone over for a meal into your house and introduced them to your family or friends? When was the last time you invited someone over, someone you didn't know well or someone who is different from you? You haven’t for a while? What is stopping you?